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President – Terri Adams – Abundant Life in Christ, Charleston, MO
First Vice President – Sharon Lourance – Black River, Qulin, MO
Second Vice President – Juanita May – Ohlman, Bunker, MO
Secretary – Norma Womble – Zion, St. Louis, MO
Asst. Secretary – Becky Cate – Friendship, Harviell, MO
Treasurer – Cathy Fox – Mount Zion, Poplar Bluff, MO
Asst. Treasurer – Connie Reifsteck – Zion, St. Louis, MO
Literature, Bible & Tract – Vi Maclin – Emmanuel, Sikeston, MO
Historian – Tracy Goede – Zion, St. Louis, MO
Youth Promoter – Shelia Polk – First, Matthews, MO
Asst. Youth Promoter – Karen Magee – First, Matthews, MO

by Ted Hurley, Pastor • First Baptist Church Bourbon, MO
Friction keeps the world moving! Without friction between the road and your tires, your car will not move. Friction
warms your hands when you rub them together on a cold winter night. Friction occurs when people disagree over a particular subject.

The online Oxford Dictionary defines friction as:
1. the resistance that one surface or object encounters when moving over another;
2. the action of one surface or object rubbing against another;
3. conflict or animosity caused by a clash of wills, temperaments, or opinions.

Even though the science of friction affects our daily lives, please consider the third definition 3; conflict or animosity caused by a clash of wills, temperaments, or opinions. Have you ever experienced friction between yourself and someone else? As human beings this type of friction often leads to some serious consequences. Verbal assaults, fights, and even wars have started as a result of friction between individuals or nations.

The online Oxford dictionary defines Brotherhood as:
1. the relationship between brothers;
2. the feeling of kinship with and closeness to a group of people or all people;
3. an association or community of people linked by a common interest, religion, or trade.

Once again the third definition moves to the forefront for consideration in this article: an association or community
of people linked by a common interest, religion, or trade.

Brotherhood within the BMA of Missouri sounds much better than friction within the BMA of Missouri! Sadly,
both exist within our state. The Apostle Peter stated in I Peter 2:1-3, “Wherefore laying aside all malice, and all
guile, and hypocrisies, and envies, and all evil speaking. As newborn babes, desire the sincere milk of the word, that
ye may grow thereby: If so be ye have tasted that the Lord is gracious.” He continued in verse seventeen, “Honour all
men. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honour the king.” (My emphases)

The Apostle Peter understood the idea of friction between people. He often clashed with the other disciples as
well as Jesus. Yet the Apostle Peter went from denying Jesus to preaching on The Day of Pentecost when thousands
were saved! Years later he wrote that we are to “love the brotherhood.”

Does there truly exist a brotherhood within the BMA of Missouri as defined by the dictionary, or has friction
become the predominate theme within our work? Because of the many different individuals that make up our state
association, there also exists many different personalities. These different personalities often lead to friction and not brotherhood. How about it men (and women), especially you pastors and preachers, do others see the Brotherhood
in your life? Friction must not destroy the “common interest” that exists within the Brotherhood of Jesus Christ
in the BMA of Missouri! Yes, friction keeps the world moving, but Brotherhood should keep the BMA of Missouri
moving. Brotherhood will accomplish more goals than friction! How about letting Brotherhood become the main theme of our Association? When friction becomes the center of focus instead of the preaching of Jesus Christ, the devil becomes the winner. Just remember, when two sticks are rubbed together hard enough, both sticks will be destroyed by the friction they create. When two sticks work together in Brotherhood, they are twice as hard to break!

Greetings! I would like to invite every church in our association to be represented by attendance or official letter at the 63rd annual meeting of the BMA of America. The meeting is scheduled for April 16-18, 2012 at the Jackson Convention Complex in Jackson, Mississippi.

The theme for the meeting, “Until the End,” is based upon Hebrews 6:11 (we desire that every one of you do shew the same diligence to the full assurance of hope unto the end). The theme will focus on the challenge to make a long term impact through our departments as an association and our ministries as local churches and individuals.

Every action Jesus took, every message He shared, every miracle He performed, and every day of His life revolved around His desire to make an eternal impact on all those with whom He came in contact. He raised up disciples and challenged them to do likewise. The writer of Hebrews has challenged us to do the same, and it is my prayer for our association that we will follow Jesus’ example.

Monday evening’s session will focus on the meeting’s theme. Tuesday morning will provide meeting opportunities for auxiliaries, departmental and agency boards and the Pastors’ and Laymen’s Conference. The highlight of Tuesday night’s service will be the annual message by George Reddin. Business will be held on Tuesday afternoon and also Wednesday morning and afternoon. The annual meeting will climax with the Missions Department report and commissioning service on Wednesday night.

Remember that proposed constitutional amendments must be submitted in writing to the clerks of the association no later than February 1. I ask you to please pray for a meeting that honors our Savior.

Surely you didn’t think that I would actually suggest you gain a bunch of weight as a goal for 2012! I am writing about growing larger in a spiritual sense. Every Christian should have a burning desire to grow larger, deeper, purer, higher than ever before in their walk with the Lord. While the desire may be there, the ability to carry it out is another story. There is this thing called “finding the time” that keeps slipping away. How fast do your days go? Does it seem that the weeks and months just fly by? Yet, we must carve out each day, some time to spend with God, our Father, and Jesus, our Savior and the Holy Spirit, our comforter. There is another problem to growing in our faith. It is our personalities. It is who we are as a person. On the one hand, there are a small minority of people who are driven and laziness isn’t in their vocabulary. However, this extreme drive can also be detrimental. Often times these people are perfectionist, workaholics, or obsessive/compulsive people who do things out of a need to feel adequate and accepted. This causes you to do your bible study not out of a deep abiding love for Christ, but just one more item to check off on your daily push to do every thing just right. Your Bible study then becomes a routine and a ritual, rather than life-changing. You find acceptance of yourself by doing things on time and just right. This helps your self-esteem and makes you feel better about yourself. Performing task to make yourself more acceptable is impossible when it comes to God. If you have Christ in your heart, you cannot be anymore acceptable than you already are. No completion of tasks can change that fact. God loves and accepts you forever in Christ. Then there is a majority of humans that fall into the lazy category. None of us like to think of ourselves as lazy, but it is a common human condition. When you combine this with a lack of burning passion for the things of Christ; you get people who don’t truly grow in faith. We like the pleasures of the world. We like to relax when we are not at work or doing chores. I’m just not motivated like I should be. If these people do grow, it is at a snail’s pace. How could you explode in spiritual growth in 2012?

1. Repent of your tendency towards laziness or obsessive drive. Ask God to give you a burning desire from the Holy Spirit to “want” to pray and study His word. Literally ask for this specifically in prayer. But have the “desire” be from Him, and not of your flesh.
2. Make it a habit. Once you get into the habit of doing a bible study and personal prayer time; it becomes part of your daily routine. A daily routine doesn’t have to be uninspiring. It just makes it easier to accomplish. We humans are creatures of habit. When we get ready in the morning, or at night or during the day,if we don’t make God part of our habit; then the whole day goes by and you wake up the next day and say, “ oh man I didn’t do my Bible study.” Doing a prolonged time of prayer, seeking God’s face, should be as common as eating breakfast, combing your hair, or drinking your favorite beverage when you get up. Once it becomes a habit, it then becomes strange when you don’t do it. A huge step towards growing is to make prayer and Bible study a habit.
3. Be realistic. I hear people all the time tell me they are going to start setting their alarm an hour earlier, and get up in the wee hours of the morning for their personal growth time. 99% of the time, this will never last. You have to create this habit of devotion time that is reasonable and realistic with your life style. There are some people who actually wake up at 5:00 a.m. and can do a quiet time before anyone else in the house gets up. If that is your personality bend, “a morning person,” then go for it. But if you like to linger when the alarm goes off, don’t attempt to do spiritual growth at an hour that is not your cup of tea. You will only grit your teeth for a month or two and then get out of the habit. Carve out a time and place that works for you and stick to it. If you have kids, then they need to be made to understand that you are not to be disturbed during this time. Invariably there may be an interruption with small kids, and just go with it. But it shouldn’t be that you are always interrupted by them, and don’t get to do it. It is awesome for them to learn that you respect your time alone with God. It teaches them a valuable lesson for their own future spiritual growth.
4. Refuse to feel guilty if you miss a day. It happens. You don’t skip a day without prayer. I mean you may just miss occasionally your private time. It’s okay. Just quickly re-establish the habit.
5. If you can’t do this consistently, check your heart. You may have a heart problem. Our King not only commands us to do this, but how could you stand in His presence and not want to do this? If nothing else, let Jesus do heart surgery on you in 2012.
   Afterall, He is the great physician.

By Travis Plumlee director of Family Ark Ministries

Rick Russell, LifeWord’s Chief Programming Officer, received the following note the first week of January. It is a great reminder of our mission and calling. To read more stories of changed lives, visit www.lifeword.org.

“Last month we had a very interesting visitor who traveled for twenty hours to come and meet us. He is a listener of the Kannada LifeWord program. It was interesting to know that he came to know Christ as his personal savior through the broadcast. This man traveled all the way by himself and was completely blind. He came wanting to meet us just to let us know how thankful he was for the program. He only spent a couple of hours with us and then headed straight back to where he was from. It was a very touching time for all of us who met him. In a country like India where our system neglects the physically challenged, it was such a joy to see his own just to come and thank the ministry. Let us all continue to work together so that we can reach out to many more like this young man who needed a savior.”

Prashant Prakash, Producer
– Kannada broadcast, India